D&D Table Etiquette: How to Be a Great Player (and Get Invited Back)

The best players aren’t the ones with the cleverest builds. They’re the ones everyone wants back next week. Here’s what that looks like.

Before the game

  • Show up on time with your character ready — or message the group early if you can’t make it.
  • Know the basics of your own character: what you roll for an attack and what your spells do.
  • Agree on tone and limits at a session zero.

At the table

  • Share the spotlight. If you’ve had a big moment, ask the quiet player what their character does.
  • Plan your turn while others take theirs.
  • Phones away unless you’re using them for your sheet or dice.
  • Rules questions: if it can’t be answered in a minute, let the DM rule and look it up after the session.
  • Roll in the open and leave the dice where everyone can see them.
  • Respect safety tools — lines, veils and the X-card. See safety tools explained.

Playing online

  • Use headphones and mute when you’re not speaking if there’s background noise.
  • Keep the chat for the game.
  • Have your sheet open in one tab and roll from it — Roleplayer sheets roll everything with one click.

After the game

Thank your DM, help tidy up, and read the session recap. A short message about your favourite moment does more for a group than any rule. Looking for a new table? Try Find a Group.

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